There are many words that could describe the heartfelt love and devotion I have for my parents. I really do feel, and have always felt that I was blessed with the most incredible parents and family. I realize my life could have been very different had I been born into a different family. I didn't grow up in a family of worldly wealth, but we always have had an abundance of joy. Our love for each other and our savior has always been enough.
My parents moved their little family of 5 (at the time, ending up as 8) to the coldest, most barren and windiest place on earth......o.k. maybe not THE most of all those things, but it sure was close....(RockSprings, Wyoming should say it all)....to try to make a life for them. My dad got a job at Bridger Coal mining company as a mechanic and first settled what they had, at a place called Farson, Wyoming. Farson wyoming is a little clump of trees in the middle of nowhere, but it has a great tie to our family and our story, so we love the place and the life long friends we made there. :)
My mother was very pregnant with me at the time, and took care of my two older sisters also.
No running water, no power, no phone, a real start to a wonderful adventure we call our family history.When I was two, we moved to Rock Springs, which was a little more populated than Farson, but we lived 3 miles out of town, so we nearly had the wilderness to ourselves and a few other neighbors nearby.
In all the 30 years of my life, there has never been a time where both of my parents weren't working hard. My mom was at home while we grew up, taking care of and raising 5 girls and 1 boy, making sure we had 3 square meals a day, getting us off to school and church, and running errands, then later needing to take up jobs out of the home to help get us by when my dad literally had worked his hands and elbows to the bones and nerves, causing him to lose his job from not being able to physically work. I want you to know..that I have the same deep feelings of gratitude for both my parents, but I want to share something about my dad this time.
Despite the physical trials my Dad ended up dealing with, he has always
had the gift of his hands, which are equal to the words and meaning of, work, hard labor, and love.
This gift is his personally, but boy has it blessed more
than him, and more than his family a lone. This picture is something I will always treasure. My sister
asked me to take this a while ago. She has the same feelings I do about
it, as I am sure the rest of my family do too. My Dad recently turned 60. My sister made a special present for him with this picture, to tell him how she felt about it, and I was so very
touched that she would ask me to help, and now I want to share it too.
Julia,
ReplyDeleteThat was awesome. You put everything into words that I have always felt. We do have wonderful parents. I love them so much. Thank you for doing this.
I agree, I don't think anyone could have put my feelings into words better than that. Thank you Julia, that was so beautiful, I cried like a little baby the whole time.
ReplyDeletethank you too Tara and Kerissa :)It's hard to not get emotional about Dad's hands and what they mean to all of us, I love you too :)
ReplyDeleteThat was beautiful, Julia...
ReplyDeleteWhat's really amazing is to have kids that recognize and appreciate everything so much. That means a lot and makes it all worth it. And the biggest reward is to see your kids now raising their kids and working just as hard...
You are all awesome, we love you guys so much :)
We love you too mom, you are amazing too in everything you do, thank you for being such a great example to us :)
ReplyDeleteWow Julia.
ReplyDeleteSpecial people, we are so blessed. All of your hands are busy now. There are those that don't want to put the effort forth but not in our family. All pioneer spirits blazing new trails all the time. Testing our faith. Thank you all for the comments, with love.
ReplyDeleteI miss you Dad, so much. 9 years later and your hands mean so much more to all of us. I work even harder now, to carry on your legacy and to hopefully teach my kids the joy of work that you taught me. I can only imagine the work you are doing in heaven now. lots of hugs to you! <3
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